Consent Issues

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Consent Issues Letter

General Likes
Smut Likes
DNWs
The Folk of the Air
Star Wars Sequel Trilogy
Original Works M/F - Gang Bangs & Public Use
Original Works M/F - Supervillain/Superhero

General Likes
- Casefic
- Darkfic
- PWP
- Angst
- Hurt/comfort & whump
- Characters suffering, especially for reasons they bring on themselves or due to self-hate, but any reason for suffering is good stuff
- Bathing/washing, being dried with a towel, being fed
- Power dynamics being explored
- Bed sharing, fake dating, snowed in, trapped together, huddling for warmth, all those fun tropey setups!
- Being emotionally overloaded or overwhelmed
- Height differences
- Touch-starved or stoic characters
- Sad characters
- Bisexual characters
- Ghosts
- Weddings and wedding nights
- Cooking and food especially food sharing
- Enemies and annoyances to lovers, rivalries especially flirty ones
- Getting together, first kisses, feelings realisation
- Clothes sharing
- Soulmate aus especially words/last words, especially when this trope is twisted to be horror
- Horror in general
- Team as family and found family
- 5+1
- Nonsexual intimacy
- Guilt-laden infidelity
- Messy characters in extremely messy situations

Things I opt-in to: mentioned past relationships or background ships, major character death, experimental formats inc. interactive fiction, pregnancy, second person POV, graphic violence, sad or ambiguous endings, suicide

Smut Likes
Rough sex, vanilla sex, hand kink, biting/scratching, public use and gangbangs, being held down, bittersweet sex, noncon (except my DNW stipulation), dubcon, praise kink, heat cycles, face-fucking, extremely emotionally charged sex, spanking, first times, humour and awkwardness, aftercare, femsub, finger fucking, cunnilingus, public and semi-public sex, bad guys made them do it, pining while fucking, sex pollen inc. only one partner being pollened, strapons, affectionate use of the word "slut/whore" (like "you’re a good little slut"), showing trust through sex acts, voyeurism, masturbation (solo, mutual and guided), frottage, clothed and semi-clothed sex, handholding while fucking

I’m okay with either come/cum as spelling and with pussy and cunt as terminology for vaginas.

This list is non-exhaustive, I have a lot of things I like! This is my generic list, it all applies to non- and dub-con too — even the sweeter or more vanilla aspects, I’m happy to see them twisted into something nasty. I think the only things to add is that I also like characters absolutely hating how much they are enjoying what’s happening, and non-sexual non-consensual touch (or boundary crossing in general)!

To note, I can get much grottier and darker if the fic is in the aggressor’s POV. Then, I don’t actually need evidence that the victim is enjoying themselves (although I like arousal as a fear response), but just the aggressor believing (or straight lying to themselves) that the victim is enjoying some part of it. But please don’t take this to mean I prefer aggressor POV — I also adore victim POV, but then I need their body betraying them, or them hating that their enjoying it or wanting some part of it.

I’m hoping this helps clarifies things, rather than confusing anything, but if I’ve muddied the waters, then please feel free to ask any clarifying questions via mods.

DNWs
- Anyone under 17 for smut (but mentioned off-screen or ages not being specified is fine)
- Anal in het or femslash
- Noncon where the victim receives no pleasure whatsoever (they don’t have to enjoy it, but I want them to receive pleasure whether they want to or not)
- Scat, watersports, emetophilia, belly kinks (inc. feeding & inflation), pussy slapping, fisting, oviposition, breeding kink
- The phrase “to the hilt”
- Mpreg
- Readerfic
- Identity head canons for the aggressor or victims (side-characters are fine)

The Folk of the Air

>>> Madoc xcons Taryn Duarte, Balekin Greenbriar xcons Jude Duarte, Daine Greenbriar xcons Jude Duarte, Madoc xcons Jude Duarte
1. Abuse of Authority - Subordinate Feels Unable to Reject Superior's Advances
2. Attitude - Victim Secretly Enjoys the Attention
3. Cooperation - To Prove Obedience
4. Cooperation - Victim accepts for political advancement
5. Cooperation - Victim Thinks Xcon is the Only Way They Will Ever Feel Loved
6. D/S - Neediness to Please
7. Dynamic - No No Yes
8. Hand and Finger Kink
9. Intimacy - Forced to Sleep Beside Aggressor After Xcon
10. Marriage - Droit du Seigneur
11. Motive - Aggressor Believes It's Their Right to Xcon Victim
12. Motive - Training Victim to Withstand Interrogation
13. Penetration - Spitroasting
14. Praise - Victim Forced to Describe How Good Ongoing Xcon Feels
15. Scenario - Aggressor prioritizes their pleasure over victim's pleasure/pain
16. Scenario - Aggressor roleplays as victim's loved one
17. Scenario - Victim used as party favor
18. Undercover - Xcon to Maintain Cover
19. Victim Not Viewed as as Person Because of What They Are
20. Violence - Brutal Sex

Give me all the authority figure xcon, especially with people proving their loyalty or dedication through sex and sex acts. For all of these, I’m happy with one-on-one, I’m happy for it to be watched, and I’m also into public use/being passed around to pretty much any other cast member. The only people I don’t want involved in any sexual things are Heather, Vivienne and Oak, please.

These are all suggestions — I’m happy for any requested freeform being taken and run with.

With Balekin/Jude, I’d be interested in her having sex with him to keep up the appearance that she’s under his gaes. Maybe there’s stuff he gets her to do that even he wouldn’t normally do, if he thought she could refuse. Or an AU where he wins the crown and Madoc marries her off to him to secure his political position. Some defiance here from Jude would be delightful!

With Daine/Jude, perhaps stabbing her hand isn’t the only thing he did to make her show her loyalty. Or perhaps he abuses his power of being the only one who can put her under a gaes. Or, similar to above, Madoc marries her off to Daine in an AU where he secures the crown.

With Madoc/Taryn, I feel like there’s a lot she’d do to prove she’s not like her sister, especially since Locke has taught her how fae like to be pleased. I’m especially interested in stuff happening between them during The Wicked King, and the gap between that and The Queen of Nothing, when she’s turned from Jude completely and is most under the (figurative) spell of the faerie people. Her not feeling able to withdraw consent, wanting to please him even if she wished there was another way, or his morals being alien enough that he doesn’t see the problem are all great roads I’d love to see explored. Or maybe Taryn just feels like she wants to stay safe and so will go beyond her daughterly duties to try and secure that safety.

With Madoc/Jude, I’m happy for it to be much rougher than he might be with Taryn, him proving a point, but I’d also be extremely into Madoc fucking her while he’s still convinced that she’s Taryn at the beginning of The Queen of Nothing. Maybe Jude’s horrified upon realising what her sister has been going through, or maybe some terrible, small part of her is envious.

>>> Cardan Greenbriar xcons Jude Duarte, Any makes Cardan Greenbriar xcon Jude Duarte, Any makes Jude Duarte & Cardan Greenbriar mxcon, Jude Duarte & Cardan Greenbriar mxcon
1. A/B/O - Unexpected Heat Leads To Sex Neither Would Want If In Their Right Mind
2. Altered States - Victim Dosed with Aphrodisiac
3. Arousal - Aggressor Tries to Arouse Victim
4. Attitude - Aggressor Regrets Xcon During Act But Continues
5. Attitude - Defiant Victim
6. Attitude - Victim Mouths Off and Makes Things Worse for Self
7. Attitude - Xcon is Not as Satisfying as Aggressor Hoped
8. Attitude - Reluctant But Grateful Aggressor
9. Coercion - Victim in desperate situation uses sex as bargaining chip
10. Cooperation - Victim's Pride Won't Let Them Say No
11. Dynamic - Attempting to Mutually Manipulate Each Other
12. Hand and Finger Kink
13. Marriage - Forced Public Consummation of Political Marriage
14. Misunderstandings - Incorrectly Believing They're in a Fuck-or-Die Situation
15. Motive - Obsessive Love
16. Motive - To Prove Victim Means Nothing to Aggressor
17. Mxcon - Characters in denial realize mutual feelings
18. Mxcon - Fuck or Die When One Victim Would Rather Die
19. Scenario - "You xcon them or I will"
20. Sex Pollen - Unaffected Character Doesn't Realize Love Interest is Sex-Pollened

Ah, Jude/Cardan. I like it when things are pretty dark and fucked up between them, when they hate themselves for how much they want each other. I’ve put these in a bundle, but they could go a bunch of ways and I’m open to them all pretty much.

Any era is fine, although if it’s post-canon, I would need amnesia or sex pollen or something to explain what fucked their relationship back up. For amnesia, one of them thinking the other is playing a game and not realising their nonconning their partner could be fun.

But The Cruel Prince-era Jude/Cardan is probably my favourite, though I adore it getting a little more emotionally messy in The Wicked King too. Him being riddled with shame or guilt for his feelings, them both being angry, and just plenty of self-loathing mixed with loathing of each other is wonderful.

Like the above, I’m happy to see other characters (other than Heather, Vivi & Oak) involved in any capacity. And for "Any" making them xcon, I could see her being presented as a gift to the prince or king after something happened, or Valerian, Nicasia and Locke purposely drugging her with or without Cardan’s knowledge. All I really want out of a scenario is them both hating how much they like it and want it.

>>> Taryn Duarte xcons Cardan Greenbriar, Madoc makes Taryn Duarte xcon Cardan Greenbriar, Taryn Duarte & Cardan Greenbriar mxcon
1. A/B/O - Unexpected Heat Leads To Sex Neither Would Want If In Their Right Mind
2. Betrayal - Aggressor knows that it's xcon but pretends not to notice
3. Betrayal - Aggressor knows victim wouldn't consent if fully informed
4. Betrayal - Uninformed Consent Due to Identity Issues
5. Coercion - Emotional Manipulation
6. Coercion - Victim in desperate situation uses sex as bargaining chip
7. Cooperation - Victim is Self-Destructive
8. Dynamic - Aggressor is Physically Weaker than Victim
9. Hand and Finger Kink
10. Marriage - Forced Public Consummation of Political Marriage
11. Mental - Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms
12. Misunderstandings - Victim Would Have Consented If Asked
13. Motive - Aggressor is unrequitedly pining for victim
14. Motive - Aggressor tells themself they are doing it out of love
15. Oral - Aggressor Performs Oral Sex
16. Scenario - Aggressor is totally nonchalant about xcon
17. Sex Pollen - Aggressor is Only One Affected
18. Undercover - Xcon to Maintain Cover
19. Victim Performs Cunnilingus

This one is based solely on the end of The Wicked King, when Taryn pretends to be Jude in order to trick Cardan, while Cardan is drugged. But, I’m very up for other times Taryn might have xconned Cardan or they mxcon. For any story that includes Cardan actually knowing her identity (especially in the case of mxcon), I’d want Cardan to be thinking about Jude in some capacity.

For Taryn xconning him, I’d love it to be mistaken identity or something similar. I’d love to see Cardan’s reactions in thinking Jude was openly desiring him, and maybe Taryn reacting to that. Would she find it sexy, or pathetic, especially given how much time she’s spent with men who are not nearly as forthright with their desires? Would she yearn for what her sister is getting, not understand why Jude wouldn’t give into that? Would there be jealously? How would Cardan react when he realised it wasn’t Jude? How does he find it out?

Or it could be her taking advantage of him post-Jude’s exile.

Madoc making her xcon him is pretty straightforward. I like him using his daughter as a bargaining chip once he realises the power Jude has over Cardan. I don’t mind Taryn being resisted and it leading to mxcon.

For straight mxcon, I love sex pollen and heats, as well as them both being too drunk or drugged to consent.

Star Wars Sequel Trilogy

>>> Armitage Hux & Rose Tico mxcon, Rose Tico xcons Armitage Hux
1. A/B/O - Unexpected Heat Leads To Sex Neither Would Want If In Their Right Mind
2. Abuse of Authority - Victim Can't Consent Due to Power Imbalance
3. Captivity - Hostage Situation
4. D/S - Non-Negotiated Kink
5. Dynamic - Aggressor is Physically Weaker than Victim
6. Dynamic - Attempting to Mutually Manipulate Each Other
7. Hand and Finger Kink
8. Impact Play - Spanking
9. Marriage - Arranged Marriage
10. Misunderstandings - Incorrectly Believing They're in a Fuck-or-Die Situation
11. Misunderstandings - Victim Would Have Consented If Asked
12. Motive - Corruption/Falling From Grace/Giving Into Temptation
13. Mxcon - Fuck or Die When One Victim Would Rather Die
14. Mxcon - Unaware of mutual attraction
15. Penetration - Non-Penetrative Xcon
16. Scenario - Ashamed of enjoying mxcon
17. Sex Pollen - Aggressor is Only One Affected
18. Sex Pollen - Character Feels Guilty for Succumbing When Other Character Resisted
19. Undercover - Xcon to Maintain Cover
20. Victim Performs Cunnilingus

The deleted scene where Rose bites Hux’s hand is what led me to start shipping this — a combo of my hand kink and Hux getting so angry at being humiliated made me very happy. I really like seeing him dominated by her in either scenario (her xconning him or them mxconning).

These are all suggestions, like all my letter — I’m happy for any requested freeform being taken and run with.

For her xconning him, I’d love the lines to be a bit blurry. Mind control (on his behalf), truth serum that makes him admit things he wouldn’t normally, him being her prisoner and wanting her but unable to consent due to the power imbalance. Her xconning him via identity issues while undercover would be grand too, as would under-negotiated kinks turning consensual sex into xcon.

For them mxconning, sex pollen, both of them being prisoners (maybe Hux is caught as a spy and thrown in a cell with her), any kind of "something made them do it" or fuck or die situations are all gravy to me. Equally, post-TROS (but canon divergent where Hux has lived) and they are both far too drunk to consent is good. I also like scenarios where they are stranded together, which could work with a few of the above suggestions.

Original Works M/F - Gang Bangs & Public Use

1. Abuse of Authority - Aggressor Takes Advantage of Subordinates
2. Abuse of Authority - Military Hierarchy
3. Attitude - Reluctant But Grateful Aggressor
4. Attitude - Victim Secretly Enjoys the Attention
5. Betrayal - Aggressor accuses victim of enticing
6. Betrayal - Consenting to Sex with One Person but Not Subsequent Gangbang
7. Bondage - Stocks & Pillories
8. Cooperation - Society Expects Victim to Submit to Aggressor
9. Cooperation - Victim Thinks They Can't Say No
10. Cooperation - Victim Tries to Make Xcon Feel Good for Aggressor
11. D/S - Forced Submission
12. D/S - Neediness to Please
13. Humiliation - Slut Shaming
14. Humiliation - Victim Treated Like Fucktoy
15. Motive - Aggressor Believes It's Their Right to Xcon Victim
16. Penetration - Spitroasting
17. Praise - Degrading
18. Public - Public Use
19. Scenario - Victim used as party favor
20. Victim Performs Oral Sex

These are all my gang bang and public use OW requests (although, as noted with my other requests: feel free to make my other requests into gang bangs and public use, I’m always here for it!).

>>> Male Office Workers xcon Slutty New Secretary, Men Using Her as Office Toy xcon Woman Sold at Government Auction, All-Male Space Crew xcon Woman Sent on Mission with Them as Their Fucktoy, Male Officers of Isolated Army Post xcon Female Officer Assigned Fucktoy Duties, Frat Boys xcon Sorority Rushee
For this set, I really like that it’s a given that the men get free use of their holes, and it wouldn’t even cross their mind to check for consent. I especially like wetness or arousal being used as a sign their actual enjoying it, sucking people off under desks or lunch tables, being fucked over desks, and them being called sluts and whores. Even being told that no one could want a little slut like them while they’re being railed! I also like them waking up to being used, or being used while they’re trying to do other things.

I enjoy them being seen as disposalable fucktoys, and I enjoy it equally if instead the men having some reverence for their tight little holes etc. Either way is great! I also don’t mind if the women have complicated feelings towards them.

And I’m also up for any of the male members of these groups being related to them in some way — dads, brothers, uncles etc. — and other members of the group either not knowing or knowing that. But that’s in no way needed, just an idea!

>>> Stranded Male Spaceship Crew xcon Only Female Crewmember, Male Professor of a Behavioural Psychology Class xcons Defiant Female Student as a Demonstration, Male Interrogator(s) xcon Captured Female Spy, Male Interrogators xcon Female Prisoner
For this set, I like defiant and strong women being "put in their place" by men. I also like the idea that the men can’t beat them on an even playing field, so have to turn to sexual violence to show dominance.

"No no yes" and the victims becoming conditioned to want it is fine for all of these, but equally, them never breaking is good too. I’d love to see some fight in the women, maybe some harsh words thrown, and the men possibly getting off on that. Floor sex or sex anywhere-but-a-bed and face-fucking all very much appreciated. Those watching getting off on it too is great.

Oh, and for the male professor one — I’m fine with it not actually being a gangbang, and the male students just getting off on watching instead. Observers being aroused is hot. Equally, having other women in the classroom who sometimes get used is good, as is her being the only women in the class. Maybe the first woman allowed to go to that college, even?

Original Works M/F - Supervillain/Superhero

>>> Male Supervillain xcons His Superheroine Nemesis, Supervillain xcons Superheroine, Superhero xcons His Supervillain Nemesis
1. Arousal - Aggressor Aroused by Victim's Struggling
2. Betrayal - Aggressor accuses victim of enticing
3. Cooperation - Victim Tries to Make Xcon Feel Good for Aggressor
4. D/S - Forced Submission
5. Dynamic - Aggressor is Physically Weaker than Victim
6. Dynamic - No No Yes
7. Forced to Watch - Observer is Aroused
8. Humiliation - Slut Shaming
9. Intimacy - Falsely Gentle Threatening Touches
10. Motive - Aggressor Believes It's Their Right to Xcon Victim
11. Motive - Break the Haughty
12. Motive - Celebrating Combat Victory Over Victim
13. Motive - Obsessive Love
14. Oral - Aggressor Performs Cunnilingus
15. Praise - Victim Forced to Describe How Good Ongoing Xcon Feels
16. Scenario - Repeated Xcon as Part of a Cat & Mouse Game Between Rivals
17. Scenario - Winner of Game / Bet gets to xcon Loser
18. Time Loop - can only be broken by having sex with specific person
19. Victim Performs Oral Sex
20. Violence - Brutal Sex

I really love the idea of this being something that happens when they face off, and it usually ending with her being taken roughly. This is another request where I don’t mind if the universe sees women as fucktoys. But I would also love it to be this thing that happens between them in our “current” world (plus superpowers, like).

Maybe he use his powers against her to bind her, and her struggling. The mystery of how much either party is actually into it could be very fun? But I’m also extremely into her not being into it at all, either as stoic and defiant, or giving up and lying limp while he uses her.

If he’s the villain, it makes a lot of sense that he xcons her as part of his villainy. Although maybe there’s more too — do they have history together? Does he use that against her? Or is he obsessed with her specifically?

But him being a fucked up superhero is tons of fun too. Is this the only thing that tars his name as a superhero? Does he feel guilty or does he feel he’s dolling out the proper punishment that a villain deserves?

I picked POV - Outsider and the viewer arousal ones, because I thought it could be fun in the perspective of a henchperson or sidekick, witnessing it for the first time? Maybe they’d be sort of aghast that this happens, but aroused at the same time. Maybe he forces said sidekick/henchperson to join in, even, much to their dismay. Or maybe they want to. Perhaps he fucks her after facing off against her in her hideout, while her henchpeople/sidekicks ignore her cries for help.

And yeah, while it being a repeated act could be fun, it being a one-off that shakes her to the core is also very good.

Outside of this idea, one of them being exposed to a horny neurotoxin or some villain shit and reacting thusly would be great too, as would a sex pollen-y fuck or die where one of them would rather die.

Basically, I think there are a lot of fun directions this could go in! Go wild.